Friday, June 10, 2016

Insta-Friday

Things are still moving along here!
I haven't taken too many pictures this week but the ones I have taken I've shared on Instagram!
You can find me (@kimheitman) on Instagram!

Travis and I have never been to the Cedar Rapids farmers market so we lined up Grandma Van to watch the boys Saturday morning and we headed to CR!
It was nice to have a few hours kid-free!
Things started out rough...I was having contractions every 10 minutes and I even had to sit down for a few.
Obviously no baby came of it but we did realize is we are not prepared for this baby!
I didn't have my hospital bags packed or anything for the baby!
We came straight home and got everything packed!
Six days later... still no baby... but we are ready!!


 We have been spending most of our afternoons and weekends at the pool!
Cash has been begging to see if he's tall enough for the big red slide...
...but when we go during the week I have a toddler that keeps most of my attention.
We went to the pool after the farmers market Saturday and Travis walked him down to measure him!
Sure enough...he was tall enough!!
He was SO excited!!

And this happened....
WARNING: never send a hungry pregnant woman grocery shopping!!
These boys (and myself) are going to have a rude awakening when this baby is born!

I have a day date by myself all set up for June 11th.
I plan to get my nails done and finish up all the shopping for baby!
When I started having contractions Saturday I freaked out that I may not make it to June 11th!
So I did everything on Diapers.com!
Welcome back into my life Diapers.com!

On Sunday Pierce went with the Capper's to Carter's ball tournament so Cash and I headed to the pool!
It's the best place to be when you have swollen feet and ankles! 
And to be honest.... my maternity swim suit is my favorite suit I've ever worn!
I'm not self conscious and I don't have to suck my gut in!!


 T-ball and pee-wee continue also!
All three boys were thrilled when I wanted this picture!
Just smile and act like you like it!


This week has been full of appointments!
The boys got their summer buzz, I had my 37 week appointment (not dilated but baby still measuring big! I have another appointment and ultra sound next Tuesday...the day I turn 38 weeks...which is when I had BOTH boys!!) and they had dentist appointments!
Both are cavity free!
Poor Cash developed a fear for the dentist just like his mama when she was younger (okay, I still have it!). 
He started crying because he was afraid of her instruments and I got all choked up!
He and I both made it through and he was happy when it was done!


I hope you are all enjoying your summer!

Thursday, June 2, 2016

Memorial Day, Anniversary & Gorillas!

 School is officially out and summer is here!
Four days in and I'd say it's going good!

We had a great Memorial Day weekend!
Cash and I went to Kadence's dance recital Saturday morning!

 We had the Horvath's and Haley over for a BBQ and sparklers!

Like we do every year, we attended the Holbrook Memorial Day service!

After the service we went to Ryan and Amber's for a BBQ and a dip in their pond!
 It was a fun day!!

 I was very surprised how brave the boys were jumping off their dock into the water!

We are still in full swing of baseball!
So far the boys have played at different times so I'm able to go to both but this Friday Pierce is in Sigourney and Cash is in Williamsburg.
Travis will go with Pierce and I will go with Cash...divide and conquer! 

We had a Spratt family get together for my cousin Jenna becoming a nurse practitioner!
There are three of us cousins pregnant so we got a few pics...and a video that will never be shown;)
I am 36 weeks, Jenna is 30 weeks and Amber is 24 weeks!
Jenna is having a girl (her 5th girl!!), Amber is having a boy and mine is still a mystery!!

I got a pedicure...can you see it?! 
BAHAHAHAHAHA!!

~36 weeks~
Cash is my designated baby belly photographer!
He took this (standing on a Rubbermaid) and it only took about 10 takes!
Please ignore the no-makeup, just woke up look!


Today Travis and I are celebrating 9 years of marriage!
It hasn't all been peaches and cream but we're still going strong and I can't imagine life with anyone else!
I never imagined I would be pregnant on our 9th anniversary but here we are:)
I'd say we've created a pretty great life!
 We have a busy day of work, spray tans and slow-pitch softball but I'm hoping to sneak in supper together somewhere....kid-free!!
I woke up to this....
I sweet card and a king size Kit Kat....
...he gets me:)

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I have been thinking and thinking about the Cincinnati gorilla/child tragedy that took place!

If you haven't heard anything about this here's the rundown...
-Parents turn their back for a second on their 3 year old.
-3 year old goes into the gorilla exhibit and falls into the cage with a 400 pound gorilla.
-Crowd freaks out.
-Gorilla drags boys smacking his head on concrete.
-Zoo officials react in minutes and kill the gorilla to save the boys life.
-The whole world is in uproar about the gorilla dying.

I have a lot of opinions but sometimes it's scary to throw yours out there into the world of social media!

Here's what I have to say...

To all of you people saying it's the parents fault and they should be charged for this tragedy...
...I sure hope you're the most perfect parent and have never taken your eye off your child for a second!
Because that's all it takes....ONE SECOND!!
{I work with kids and unfortunately I know!}

I couldn't find Pierce a few weeks ago and he was "missing" for 25 minutes!
I'm just glad he was hiding behind a couch and not in a cage with a 400 pound gorilla!

If that was my child in the cage with the gorilla I would hope the zookeepers would have done the exact same thing and put my child's life before anything else!

Kuddos to you fast thinking zookeepers for saving a child's life!
Hopefully the zoo makes the exhibit safer so this never happens again!!

I pray for peace for the parents because they are human.
No one is perfect...no one!
Simple as that!


There, there's my two cents!
I'm not looking for a debate...
...if you don't like my opinion please don't read it!
Thanks!

Friday, May 27, 2016

Summer Advice

I'll be the first to admit I am NOT super mom and each day has it's own struggles!
While I'm in the mood of admitting things... I'll also admit I've never been the mom super excited for summer break!
 
Today marks the first day of summer vacation...
 
Does anyone else feel like every thing is a battle and fight?!
From what outfit to wear, to what's for breakfast, to "he's looking at me wrong!", to "I had that truck first!!", there's also "that snack is so disgusting I'm NOT eating!" (and in my head I'm Ross Geller saying "FINE BY ME!!")....and so on and so on!!
 
So in the summer this is my whole day from 6am to 8pm...you bet your ascot they will still go to bed at 8pm all summer....mama needs that break!!
 
We have our moments of greatness and I need to remember those more then the not-so-great moments...
...I'm working on it!
 
Things would be different if we were able to get in the vehicle and go places... like the library, the pool, the park...ANYWHERE! 
But when you also run a daycare you're stuck at home...and so are your kids!
 
I'm excited for this summer because I'm taking 5 weeks "off" after having the baby!
The boys and I will be able to load up in the vehicle and go places!
I say "off" because although I won't have daycare for 5 weeks...I'll still have my 2 boys...BUT... we'll be mobile...and that will be amazing!!
 
 
I will say this has been the one year I am more excited for summer then I ever have been in the past only for the fact of no school work!
Pierce is only in first grade but he has to work really hard for his grades and it was a nightly routine for the last 9 months!
I think we're all ready for a break!
And I may or may not have started my "break" in April after spring testing was done...sorry Mrs. Belland!
{We'll still read numerous books a day...but I can handle that!}
 
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This year I decided to write the boys a little something to keep in mind!
It's more of a guide to live by this summer!!
 
S - Sleep!  For God's sake sleep in!!!
U - Under no circumstance is it okay to leave pee or poop in the toilet!  FLUSH!!
M - Make your presence known... help out and clean up after yourselves! I am NOT a one woman show!
M - Mama... If mama is happy, everyone is happy!! Pretty simple, really!!
E - Everyone is responsible for their own actions!  Think twice...and know I have eyes everywhere!
R -  Remember to get along with everyone...EVERYONE!!
 
 
B - Be respectful! If mom says no, I MEAN IT!!  Please do not ask 100 times thinking I'll give in! That will not happen!
R - Reading books will continue throughout the summer...no matter how many fits you throw...it's happening...just do it!
E - Even 5 and 7 year olds need rest!  Chill out once in a while!!
A - Always have FUN in whatever you're doing!!!
K - Kind words are the only words I want to hear!!
 
 
And if all else fails...call grandma!!
Speed dial #1!
 
 
And lucky for me...
...summer means warm weather...
...warm weather means ice cold drinks are on the menu...
...ice cold drinks here = Bud Light!!!!
CHEERS TO SUMMER FRIENDS!
 
 
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Thursday, May 26, 2016

Goodbye Spring...Hello Summer...

Last Friday Kadence graduated from preschool!
These two will be heading to kindergarten in the fall!
The boys and I went while Travis stayed home and mowed and tended to the garden.
After her program Kellie had a meal at their house so we all went.
 
Around 9pm my parents left to head home and Pierce wanted to go with them.
He ran out after them and they told him exactly what I told him..."No, we are leaving soon too!"
 
That was the last we saw Pierce for a while!
 
I started packing up our stuff to go home and telling my boys to get their things too.
I realized I hadn't seen Pierce for a while so looked around for him.
I didn't see him.
 
After a few rounds outside and yelling inside I asked if anyone else had seen him.
Nope...no one had!
 
By this time we had everyone looking for him...Kellie, Chad, Kahne, Kadence, Cash, Ron, Joyce, Kellie's neighbors and the neighbors kids.
 
I tried to remain calm knowing he was probably okay but after 25 minutes the bad thoughts started creeping in my head.
 
I overheard Kahne asking another neighbor "Have you seen my cousin Pierce... he was wearing a black Under Armour Iron Man shirt!!!"
And I instantly thought...this will be the description we will tell the police!
 
I was a shaking disaster...
thinking someone took him....
thinking at what point do we call the cops...
thinking I'm going to have to call Travis and tell him I lost our son...
 
All the while hearing 15 people yelling "PIERCE.....PIERCE....PIEEEEERCE!!" in the background of my thoughts!
 
Kellie's neighbor asked if there was history of Pierce hiding from us...
I said no because he has never done that!
 
As I was getting to my breaking point (full on meltdown) I hear Kahne scream... "THERE HE IS!!!"
 
We were all outside in the dark and Kahne spotted him through the sliding glass door crying behind their couch inside!
 
I didn't know whether to hug him or kill him!!!
 
I was BEYOND thankful he was safe...but I was BEYOND pissed he ignored all of us yelling his name!
Turns out he was mad he couldn't go with Grandma and Grandpa!
 
We had quite the chat and heart to heart and he truly understood what he did and the severity of it!
At one point he said "I already know I'm a terrible person!" 
Talk about breaking my heart!
 
After explaining he's not a terrible person, he was crying, I was crying...and we just hugged and hugged!  He even ran back inside on his own terms to give Kellie another hug, to tell everyone he was sorry and to give Kahne another hug!
 
{I'm a sobbing mess writing this 7 days later!}
 
He's safe and that's all that matters!
We'll chalk this up to a life lesson and hope it never happens again!!
 
Okay....moving on!
 
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The weather is warming up and it's been nice to get outside!
After church on Sunday we decided to pack a picnic lunch and head to Lake Iowa for the day.
The boys had fun on the beach and walking in water!
I LOVE this picture!
 
Humor me a little Pierce and act like you like him!
 
This was the car ride home...success!
 
For anyone who truly knows me knows I'm not an outdoorsy person...and I hate bugs, especially bees!
Well all day there were the huge black jacket bumble bees every where!
I turned around and all I could hear was their buzzing... I swear they were after me!
 
I'm not the calmest person when encountering bees...
...some may say I'm a spaz!
 
This might have been the first time the boys have seen me act in such a manner;)
 
At one point Pierce and I went to the restrooms...which were outside...
He walked into the boys and I opened the door to the girls and a big hairy black spider fell right in front of me!
 
I screamed...and scared the shit out of Pierce...not to mention almost peeing my pants!
I scared Pierce so much he refused to use the bathroom...OOPS!
And Travis and Cash heard me from the van!!
 
Later that night I was at the grocery store and saw our neighbor who said "I hear you had a bad day at Lake Iowa?!  Cash said you got stung by a big black bee!"
I just laughed and told her the story!
So maybe I'm a little crazy and run around screaming when I see a bee... if my boys think I got stung then I'll let them think that...
BAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
 
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The boys have found a new quiet place....
...I guarantee it won't be their quiet place for long!

 
It's been a long week with 11 hour work days, baseball starting, hair appointments, spray tans, trying to keep the boys in their room all night (I gave up Tuesday and Wednesday night!), and just life in general!
 
This is what my house looks like at 6:30am!
{The little guy comes a little after 7}.

Latest craving....watermelon!
I have no shame in admitting I've pretty much eaten a whole watermelon this week!
 
And let the games begin!
Both boys play the same nights, sometimes the same times, sometimes different towns!
Travis coaches Pierce's team and helps coach Cash's team!
I got all three of my boys in a picture on the bottom right!

On Wednesday Cash had his last day of preschool!
He's ready for kindergarten!!
What happened to his baby face?! :(
The backpack and shoes lasted all year but both are on their last leg!
When he started in August he was a size 5 in clothes and now I'm buying him 6/7!
He's a whole head taller than most kids in his class!
 
Today Pierce finished up 1st grade!!
He's also changed from the beginning of the year!
He's on his third pair of shoes and second backpack!
Pierce is a lot harder on things than his brother!!
 
Today he is sporting the cranky, tired look!
Their father had them at the fire station until after 9:30 last night...
...and then we had some pretty big storms roll through a couple times through the night so we were all up...
...then they heard me wake up at 5:50am so both were up for the day!
 
Luckily it's an early out for Pierce...
...and luckily I love Diet Pepsi!
 
 
Hello summer...I think...
I'm excited for the baby to arrive...but I'm still mentally preparing myself for summer and having bigger mouths to feed and bigger opinions to face!
 


Friday, May 20, 2016

Field Day, Fire, Friends & Sleeeeeep!

We had a very busy Wednesday this week!
 
It started with Cash having field day at school!
 
I do not have any days to take off so Travis took the morning off to be there for Cash.
Last minute my mom (the saint) said she would watch my daycare for a few hours so I could go watch him!
I was very thankful and Cash was excited to see me!!
The weather was beautiful and all the kids did a great job!
 
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Wednesday afternoon Travis came home with his old fire gear because he got brand spank'n new gear!
Of course the boys had to try the old gear on!
Pierce's heaven right here folks!
 
Travis had fire training that night and said they were doing a controlled house fire.
He asked if I would bring the boys out...in front of Pierce...who doesn't forget anything...
...so guess where we went?!
To the fire!
 
Travis and Jeremy (BIL)
We could spot Travis the whole time with his super clean gear!

We had to move shortly after this picture because it got hot real fast!

Jeremy in action!!
 
Travis and the boys!
It was tough because Pierce wanted to stay with Travis...which was not going to happen!
So every time he came around Pierce had 100 questions for him!
 
It was the last place I wanted to be but I'll admit it was kinda cool!
It brought back memories of me as a kid going with my dad and siblings to controlled fires!
Of course back then we actually got to ride in the trucks with them!
 
It was fun to see all the firemen in action but it was crazy how fast the house burnt down!
Kind of scary, actually!
 
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We are enjoying the 70 degree weather and wish it was like this year round!

 
 
TGIF to all of you!
We are off to watch my niece graduate from preschool tonight... then we have 3 high school graduations tomorrow!
 
 
**Boys New Room Sleeping Update**
 
It's not going so smooth:(
They've been in their new room over a week and we are still up numerous times a night coaxing them back downstairs!
 
Wednesday was the best night we've had in a week...Cash fell asleep and stayed asleep the whole night...but Pierce was up around 4:30 and didn't want to be in his room anymore!
Travis got him back down there and I had to wake him up Thursday morning!
 
They seem to do okay falling asleep...with a few exceptions...but it's when they wake up in the middle of the night and get scared!
Pierce has super sonic ears and heard our water softener rebooting the other night!
He also hears me going to the bathroom numerous times a night...sorry kid, I can't hold it!
 
Last night I gave up at 2:30am and just let Cash sleep on our floor!
{That was after Pierce was already in our room a few times!}
Travis was sound asleep and didn't hear any of that...otherwise Cash would have been in his own bed!
The boys know who to come to;)
 
I know this is a phase and it to shall pass...but come on!!
I guess I'm glad we are doing this now and not when we have a newborn also up through the night!
 
If anyone has any suggestions I'm all ears!!
We have a sound machine with 10 different sounds...they hate it.
We turn on country music...but it shuts off on it's own and Pierce freaks out when that happens.
We have left any and all lights on...doesn't work!
We got all new night lights and spread them throughout the house (their route to our room!)...they don't care!
Pierce helped build the damn room...doesn't matter!
Pierce wants to leave their door open, Cash wants it closed...no compromise has been met!
 
Sincerely,
A 9 month pregnant mom just wanting to get some sleep before the baby arrives! 



Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Cash's Preschool Graduation

I'm not sure where the last 5 1/2 years went but my Cash-Man is done with preschool and starts kindergarten in the fall!
 
He has been SOOOO excited for their graduation program for the last couple weeks!
They all did a great job!
 
I had to start with this picture because it explains Cash so well!
He was rather wound up about graduating!!
 
They sang many songs and put on a show for us!
It was adorable!
 
When they handed out diplomas they announced what each child wanted to be when they grow up!
Cash still wants to be a cook at McDonald's!
 
Best Teachers Ever!!!!
Miss Debbie, Miss Dawn & Miss Stacy
{Cash has a special connection with Miss Dawn and will miss her very much!!  I think Miss Dawn likes him a little too!}

Cash and Cormac!
I can't wait to recreate these pictures for their high school graduation in 2029!!
Cash & Karli

Cash was a lucky kid and had both sets of grandparents there cheering him on!

One big happy family:)

Boys! Boys! Boys!
Cash's buddies Ben, Mason and Landon!
 
Cash, Cormac and Tyson!
Why is my kid so tall?! ;)
Cormac, Tyson, Tenley and Karli
 
After the graduation ceremony we gave Cash the choice of supper!
He chose the Sundown!
He had 16 family members join him for supper!
{Pierce was giving the peace sign...you just can't see his index finger!}
 
Thank you to all who came and helped him celebrate!
 

This picture on the left is August 2014 when he started preschool and the one on the right is from last night!
A lot has changed...except his taste in color;)
 
Time sure does fly!!
Kindergarten...here we come!!
{*sniff*sniff*}